Self confidence is quite natural for some people. For me, it is not. I got and feel bullied on my younger years because of my height, the way I speak because I came from the province.

But, who cares? I start to be myself and I act on the golden rule all the years of my life up to now. Do not do to others you do not want others do to you.

As simple as that.

When people start to pick on me. I just rebut right up front and say, you do not feed me and so back off.

Self confidence comes in many forms. When you are not shy asking around what’s on your mind, its natural. When you think your lacking confidence in some ways, read a book about building confidence.

Self confidence is you. What others say does not matter.